I enjoy regular sex with my married neighbour, but she acts as if I don’t exist in between. She knows that I’m madly in love with her but doesn’t even acknowledge me in the street.

Yet she thinks nothing of popping in through my back door any time her husband is at work, and she feels horny. Any time I try and talk about ‘us’ she pushes me on the bed and silences me with her mouth.

I’m sick of being treated like a glorified sex toy. My mates question why I’m still single. How can I tell them that the love of my life refuses to acknowledge me?

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She treats him like a "sex toy"

JANE SAYS Break this toxic cycle by locking your back door and coming to your senses so that this woman can no longer dominate your life and screw with your head.

Busy yourself with other friends and activities and get out from under her influence. Why do you continue to allow her to use you and treat you so badly?

What about your self-respect and dignity? Every time she leaves your bed another little piece of you dies.

She is already married yet is using you for smutty thrills. Find someone new who appreciates you. No one deserves this level of humiliation.