An experienced swinger who's had threesomes, foursomes and orgies has revealed the one thing she's never done before.

Sarah, from Toronto, Canada, found herself in a sexual rut after a decade without any action and was worried she might never sleep with anyone again. Speaking exclusively to the Daily Star, she said: "I was a sexually frustrated mid-30s woman, I sincerely had a 10-year sexual hiatus where I thought I was never getting sex again, I didn't know if my time was up."

The 39-year-old recalled how she'd always dreamed of having a threesome but had been waiting until she had a boyfriend or husband she could enjoy the experience with. But after years of no luck, Sarah finally decided she'd just go it alone.

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"That's when I realised that there is a role for single women, just like there's a role for single men, in the swinger lifestyle." Sarah joined the swinger community as a single woman, who she explains are dubbed "unicorns" by swingers because they're so rare.

In 2019 she entered a sex club for the first time and was finally able to fulfil her fantasy. She recalled: "I walked in there one night after the last bad Tinder date I was ever going to have and I decided that was my night and so I did.

"I went in and I met a wonderful couple and I was able to have sex for the first time with a couple and I walked out of there radiating joy and happiness." From there, Sarah was hooked on the swinger lifestyle and says she's now so used to having threesomes they seem boring.

"I'm a seasoned swinger," she said. "I've now had so many threesomes that I call them mundane and I don't mean that disrespectfully but you don't want the same thing all the time."

Moving on from threesomes, Sarah, who now has a boyfriend she swings with, started searching for other ways to expand her sexual experiences.

She said: "I was satiated with the threesomes and then I was like 'What else is there?' so then I had foursomes and fivesomes, which are orgies, and things like that. I would host sex parties in hotels with a very small invite-only group of people I knew and then I would actually have my own orgy."

Then she came up with another erotic hobby — helping fulfil other people's fantasies. "Not only did I start having more group things I actually started to help my friends fulfil fantasies as their orgy director," she added.

But while she's had her fair share of extreme sexual experiences, Sarah admits there is one thing she's still not ticked off her list - being the only woman with a big group of men.

While Sarah loves going to sex clubs and swinging, she revealed she's a demi-sexual — which means she needs an emotional connection to someone before she can be sexually attracted to them.

She explains this has hindered her ability to have sex with a group of men consecutively. "I'm too much of a picky demi-sexual girl to pick any random guy so it would have to be three specific guys that I carefully chose," she added.

Sarah, who's also known as TorontoUnicorn and shares all the details of her swinging lifestyle on her YouTube and Podcast, hasn't ruled it out for the future. "You know one day maybe but that's the one I haven't done," she said.