Am I obliged to tell my boyfriend that I’ve had plastic surgery?
Four years ago, I treated myself to a makeover as a gift to myself after a promotion at work. I got my boobs enlarged, nose reduced and my lips plumped.
I now feel sexy and more confident. I met my boyfriend six months ago and he’s asked me to move in. I’m thrilled. He’s always telling me how gorgeous I am, but he has no idea that I’ve been under the knife. What if he freaks out or changes his mind when he discovers that I’m no natural beauty?
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JANE SAYS: You had that work done for you. You decided on some procedures and paid the bills out of your own pocket.
Therefore, you don’t have to justify your actions to anyone. If you want to tell him about your investment, go ahead but don’t apologise or defend your actions. Alternatively, keep your story to yourself.
Personally, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being honest. After all, you’re the person he sees today. If he loves your character, values and looks, then you’re lucky you found each other and there are more important things to get excited about.
Veggie dodger risking health
My partner will only eat cheap, fatty junk food. It’s disgusting. He inhales sugary cereal for breakfast and greasy kebabs for dinner, all washed down with fizzy pop. He laughs when I attempt to push fresh vegetables and salad in his direction. I’m worried for his health.
JANE SAYS: It sounds as if he’s got into a bad habit of scoffing whatever is easiest, but where is the nourishment or goodness? Try versions of things he likes to eat, maybe homemade grilled chicken skewers for dinner. Can you work out a list of acceptable dishes?
If he won’t budge, then do you respect him enough to stick around? Can he be helped?